Finally, I’ve made the big move to Italy and will be getting married to my lovey dovey future hubby, Alessandro. It’s definitely a huge change for this American-born girl who grew up in a traditional Chinese family. Having moved from the big city of Los Angeles to the small town of Capanne, life is nothing like I would have imagined it to be. Over six years ago, I studied abroad in Florence and fell in love with la dolce vita. After finishing my post-baccalaureate I returned to Italy for another three months of adventure and exploration. That’s when I met my future husband and our story together began.

View of Florence
Many have warned me that the allure of new things and rosey-colored view of Italy from tourists’ eyes would soon fade. I have seen the corruption and noted the many issues that lie beneath the cobblestone streets. To be sure there will be many more realizations, not only because Italy is a new country to me, but because I am growing up and getting married as well. Warnings duly noted and who knows what will happen in the future. For now, we are happy together and excited to start our married life.

Our house
I have been meaning to create a fantastic wedding blog to chronicle the experience of being a bridezilla in Italy, but I haven’t had the time and the clock is ticking away. We are exactly one month away from the wedding date and I wanted to post an update and wedding announcement without any further delay.

Alessandro e Linda - 16 Maggio 2009
Alessandro and I will be married in a civil ceremony on May 16th, 2009 at the local commune of Montopoli. After the ceremony, which really only lasts about 15 minutes, we will host a luncheon with family and close friends to celebrate the occasion.

Our wedding invitations featuring turtles!
We have definitely been lazy at planning things out and really late in terms of sending out invitations. Not to mention things just take longer to get done in Italy. We want a simple wedding, so didn’t make a big fuss out of it. Only when you compare with couples who plan years ahead does it seem like we are naive little children still!

Civil wedding ceremony at the Montopoli commune
Nevertheless, we were able to get our paperwork done, restaurant and menu chosen, seating chart planned, invitations printed, rings purchased, honeymoon booked, flowers picked and booked…amongst many other little tasks on the wedding checklist…

Wedding luncheon invitation
Ale and I are both looking forward to the luncheon as well, because the food is fantastic. We had a private taste testing a while back and realized that the restaurant was open only for us one Saturday afternoon. Guess it helps when your brother-in-law and sister-in-law know the chef!

Wedding menu has similar sformatino that we ate for Easter lunch. I added the croissant wings though - cute!
The restaurant is on an agriturismo estate called Assia that boasts equestrian grounds, a fancy private pool, multiple lakes, a beauty spa and many kilometers of hiking trails amongst other amenities.

Corte Francigena Restaurant
I definitely plan on taking advantage of the scenery and grounds to take a million pictures while we are there. We went on a little hike to explore the grounds and there’s so much to see and hear. The frogs are extremely loud at the main lake and for some reason they hop so fast, I can’t spot them clearly. Invisible croakers it seems. While walking around I was wondering how dirty the train of my wedding dress would get though…thoughts of a bride-to-be!

One of the horses came to say hello!
The one thing my mom asked for was at least an official wedding photo. I will need a million pictures to choose from though as I plan to make a wedding album to send home. Let us hope the weather is good, since it has been unpredictable these days.

Corte Francigena is inside the Assia agriturismo in Galleno
In proper Italian tradition, we also made wedding favors, called bomboniere. My craft side came out, so I actually put them all together myself. They get handed out at the travel agency where we have our Lista di Nozze, registry for our honeymoon vacation.

Our bomboniere (wedding favors)
Traditionally, the bomboniere contain confetti inside – not the scraps of paper though. Confetti is the word in Italian for candies that look like giant white almond M&Ms. They are supposed to represent various virtues in marriage and that is why you put them in the favors. Of course, we had to be a bit different and also added chocolate bars. Everyone said chocolate would melt, but it’s the thought that counts right?

What's inside our bomboniere? Kinder maxi!
Unfortunately, everything is happening so quickly that my side of the family will not be in Italy for the occasion. Instead, we will be having a reprisal of sorts, summer 2010 when all of my family will visit. I am thinking to do the Chinese tea ceremony at that time, even though legally we would already be married for a year! Planning for that will have to wait until later, but I hope everyone can save their vacation days to visit Italy summer 2010 – perfect opportunity, right?

Tuscan landscape
That’s it for updates now. Hopefully, I will have more time this summer to get back on track in terms of everything online and my websites – after the honeymoon anyway!

Posted on April 16, 2009 at 9:39 pm | italy, wedding | 2 comments